Just how important is it for your executive team to be healthy and aligned? It is ESSENTIAL. It is so essential that The Rockefeller Habits Checklist (™) has it first in their list of ten habits. Does your executive team?
Over the last several years, I have been privileged to have been trusted to help many executives and management teams improve how they work together. Without question, the most powerful resource I have used is "The Five Dysfunctions of a Team" by Patrick Lencioni.
I am often asked, "What Five Dysfunctions of a Team exercises can you share that can help me improve how my team works together?"
This question suggests that the requester knows something fundamental about the power of the insights in the Five Dysfunctions of a Team; you must take action to reap the benefits.
Quite honestly, the following roadmap may or may not help improve your team. The following roadmap is intended to be more of a maintenance plan than a guide to turning your team around. In fact, if your team is particularly dysfunctional, any type of “self-medication” may be like trying to use a BAND AID® to fix a broken leg.
If you believe your team is particularly dysfunctional and/or are seeking a “hard reset” or to turn your team around, it is important to bring in an experienced facilitator to help you and your team navigate The Five Dysfunctions of a Team safely and properly. If you are wondering if you should go it alone or bring in a skilled facilitator, give me a call and we can discuss your situation.
A mindset that separates good from great teams is a desire to continuously work on how they work together while respecting diversity of thought and perspective. This mindset is rare.
To be clear, very few teams recognize the importance of working on how they work together. Accordingly, few teams purposefully work on how they work together. Instead, most wait until the friction becomes particularly unbearable and so expensive that they have little choice but to work on their dysfunction. The best teams understand that they must periodically and purposefully “slow down to speed up” by scheduling the essential time (at least quarterly) to work on how they work together. The best teams prioritize and protect time to work on how they work together, knowing that the benefits far outweigh the costs.
The best way to use this guide is if you and your team have actually been through a Five Dysfunctions of a Team Workshop or if your team truly has a relatively reduced level of dysfunction and seeks to improve continuously. The following guide and activities should be worked through over a period of several months so that your team may layer new awareness and skills as they work to improve and integrate Trust, Commitment, Accountability, and Results into how your team works together.
Before you begin, it is highly recommended that you have each of your team members commit to actually reading the book. As a leader, consider re-reading the book multiple times. Obviously, it is essential to know the book well yourself. If you choose not to become deeply familiar with the content, it will show as you work with your team. Your team will take this endeavor as seriously as you do.
Invest in these resources. While there are many places to attempt to save money, this is not one of them. I strongly recommend that the launch and each of the five retreats be hosted offsite and every team member receive a copy of their own book, their own workbook, and complete their own Team Assessment and Behavioral Style assessment. The results are very much worth the investment.
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Month 5: Embracing Accountability
The initial form of the proverb “the first step is the hardest” was actually recorded c. 1596 as “the first stretch [of a journey] is the worst,” in reference to a notoriously excruciating journey undertaken by St. Denis, the patron saint of France.
Have each team member read the book thoroughly. This is important. While book summaries can certainly be handy for quick reference during the team building, they are insufficient in fully preparing each team member for this change journey. Important subtleties will be missed by those who are “too busy” to read the book and instead read the book summary. There will be some on your team who view this team endeavor as vitally important to continuing to be a part of the team. It is important to respect their commitment. If you allow a “high performer” to get away with reading the summary only (or not at all), it will become obvious to those who have invested their time and energy into reading the full book. This speaks volumes and is actually reflective of your team’s dysfunction. And if you choose to read only the summary while others read the book, this speaks volumes and is also reflective of your team’s dysfunction.
If you, the leader, do not intend to read the book, I recommend you strongly consider not proceeding with leading this endeavor.
Is it not ironic that the very foundation of The Five Dysfunctions of a Team is vulnerability-based trust, and the very effort to build this level of trust may actually be hamstrung by a team member being “too busy” or too important to have read the entire book?
You cannot make that up. Yet it happens all too often.
This is your time to throw down the gauntlet. Lay it on the line. Your team is watching. Do not miss this opportunity.
If you really seek to prepare (and blow your team away), listen to the audio AND read the book. Every time you read/listen to the book, you will pick up on subtleties you had not picked up on previously. Your team will pick up on your awareness of these subtleties.
Next, have your team complete the Five Dysfunctions of a Team Assessment at minimum, and include an Individual Personality Assessment (Behavioral Style assessment) for best results. Contact me to get set up with the assessments you will need to be successful.
Once your team’s aggregate Team Assessment is completed reflecting your team’s The Five Dysfunction of a Team scoring, it is time to launch. Speak from your heart.
Your team will take this as seriously as you do. Be fair and respectful to those who may have been waiting for this opportunity for quite some time. Use this launch meeting and future retreats to earn buy-in and commitment from each and every team member. Set the tone for the rest of this journey and provide an overview of what the focus will be each month. The Five Dysfunctions journey can literally be the proverbial “fork in the road” for YOU AND your team. This endeavor is NOT for the faint of heart. If you and your team fail to prepare, you and your team are preparing to fail. Choosing to do this half-heartedly will cause far more harm than one may realize.
The stakes are high. Time is expensive. Ensure the moose on the table is discussed. And…It is a heavy burden to wear the hat of leader, facilitator, and participant - particularly for subject matter this deep.
From my experience, the larger the number of team members involved, the less likely it is a true team. I highly recommend this endeavor be completed within a true team only. Vulnerability-based trust is less likely to result if two or more teams are present. Furthermore, larger teams require significantly more time AND are almost always much more challenging to effectively engage without significant facilitation experience.
While intention certainly counts for something, it is important to get this as right as possible. My recommendations are based on almost 15 years of experience of facilitating The Five Dysfunctions of a Team Workshop.
It is highly recommended that you set aside the full morning through mid-afternoon for the first retreat - Building Trust. This is particularly important if you have more than 7 or 8 team members participating. The first Dysfunction, Trust, is always the longest to work through.
Without Trust, your team will not be able to engage in unfiltered debate - Conflict. Without Conflict, your team will not be able to fully Commit to decisions. Do not speed through Trust. This is not a race. Your team will sense your degree of care and behave accordingly.
There often seems to be a team member or two who is chomping at the bit to engage in conflict immediately. Some view this type of workshop as the opportunity to get it all out. Others view this workshop in silent horror because they just know there will be a license to have conflict. Keep in mind people view and handle conflict differently based upon their life experiences and behavioral style. Do not expect your team to be ready for conflict during the first and even second retreat unless you and your team are already skilled, accustomed, and comfortable engaging in conflict.
The first retreat is absolutely not the time to get everything out on the table and have team members air their grievances with one another. Without enhanced trust and conflict norms, conflict can cause more damage than good - particularly if those who seemingly are more comfortable with (or even enjoy) conflict are allowed to run unchecked.
You will likely find that team members will go off on tangents. After all, there may be much for each team member to unpack emotionally. This is normal. I recommend doing what you can to respectfully keep everyone on track in terms of the activities. Knowing when to curb an increasingly off-track discussion can be a real challenge. If you follow all of the activities recommended in this document, your team will have much time to share their viewpoints and experiences.
Should you run out of time yet have activities remaining for each retreat, I strongly recommend continuing where you left off during your next retreat. Accordingly, you may need to add more time to subsequent retreats depending upon the size of your team and how much your team goes off track.
If you have read the book, you will notice that the section “Understanding and Overcoming the Five Dysfunctions (beginning on page 195) contains solid reference material that you may wish to use to frame your discussion during your retreat.
Begin your half to full-day Trust retreat with a recap of the launch meeting and a personal histories exercise (or two or three). Continue this practice for each team effectiveness meeting. Lencioni shares common examples in his workbook as well as the book itself. An additional example of a personal histories exercise includes “two truths and a lie,” i.e., each person shares two factual and one fictional thing about themselves. Then, they share with the group, and the group guesses which is fact and which is fiction.
IMPORTANT - Do not rush this activity. Honor the greatness in every team member by allowing them to share, acknowledge, and reflect as needed. Invest 60-75 minutes in personal histories activities.
Next, ask team members to turn to page three from their Team Assessment Report. Ask them to follow along as you read every word. Pause for emphasis. This is important.
Recommendation - Read every word from this page forwards and then summarize backwards (results are not possible without Accountability, Accountability is less likely without Commitment, etc). Patrick Lencioni has created an incredibly powerful framework.
Expect 30-45 minutes for this activity. Specifically:
This is IMPORTANT - The completion of at least a Behavioral Style assessment by each team member is HIGHLY-RECOMMENDED. Contact my team if you are seeking a strongly recommended assessment for this powerful activity. Much of the conflict that occurs between team members is a result of a lack of awareness of one’s Behavioral Style and that of others. Without the benefit of self and interpersonal awareness that results from completion and review of a valid Behavioral Assessment, it will be difficult to impossible to fully build vulnerability-based Trust with your team. Please feel free to request a sample assessment. I do not recommend Meyer’s Briggs Type Indicator.
If you and your team completed a Behavioral Style assessment, invest the remainder of the time available to become familiar with the core concepts of the Behavioral Science behind the assessment, as well as have each team member share their own assessment results with fellow team members. This is an essential contributor to building trust with your team. Do not skimp on a low or no-cost Behavioral Assessment. Again, call on me with questions.
Did you get through all of the activities from Trust? If not, strongly consider proactively adding an hour or two or three to the second retreat.
Do the work. Your team will notice.
Begin your half to full-day Conflict retreat with a recap of the Trust retreat and a personal histories exercise or two. Continue this practice for each team effectiveness meeting. Lencioni shares common examples in his workbook as well as the book itself.
Should you run out of personal histories exercises, consider deploying the Thumball Icebreaker ball and/or Icebreaker Deck exercises. IMPORTANT - Do not rush this activity nor cut it out to “save time”. This is where Trust is improved. Honor the greatness in every team member by allowing them the opportunity to share, acknowledge and reflect as needed. Invest 60-75 minutes in personal histories activities (more with a larger team).
Next, ask team members to turn to page three from their Team Assessment Report. Ask them to follow along as you read every word. Pause for emphasis. This is important. Ask for your team member’s thoughts. Go around the room. Point - make sure team members are mindful that without Trust, unfiltered debate is difficult to impossible. Trust is a building block to Conflict.
Expect 30-45 minutes for this activity. Specifically:
For this retreat, team members should be prepared to discuss how their Behavioral Style assessments suggest how they may view and engage in conflict. This is a powerful opportunity to shape self and interpersonal awareness. Have each team member share their insights about themselves and better understand fellow team members with the goal of enhanced team communication and performance.
Use page 12 (Team Culture Questions - Mastering Conflict - What is acceptable behavior during conflict) from the Team Assessment Report as a starting point. Each team member should define acceptable and unacceptable behaviors based on constructive conflict (i.e., stay focused on the problem, not the team member). Capture responses electronically as well as using a flip chart. Identify potential team conflict norms.
Assign a team member to be a “miner” of conflict. This person will be responsible for bringing sensitive issues to the surface and ensuring every team member contributes to the dialogue. Consider doing so during all meetings where important issues need to be surfaced and discussed. The team should use the insights from their Behavioral Style assessment and the conflict norms to discuss the sensitive issues brought forth by the designated conflict miner.
Did you get through all of the activities from Trust and Conflict? If not, strongly consider proactively adding time to the third retreat.
Begin your half to full-day Commitment retreat with a recap of the Conflict retreat and a personal histories exercise or two. Continue this practice for each team effectiveness meeting. Lencioni shares common examples in his workbook as well as the book itself.
Should you run out of personal histories exercises, consider deploying the Thumball Icebreaker ball and/or Icebreaker Deck. IMPORTANT - Do not rush this activity. Honor the greatness in every team member by allowing them to share, acknowledge, and reflect as needed. Invest 60-75 minutes in personal histories activities.
Next, ask team members to turn to page three from their Team Assessment Report. Ask them to follow along as you read every word. Pause for emphasis. This is important. Ask for your team member’s thoughts. Go around the room. Recite the Five Dysfunctions cadence beginning with Results and work your way down to Trust.
Expect 30-45 minutes for this activity. Specifically:
For this retreat, team members should be prepared to discuss how their Behavioral Style assessment suggests they view commitment. This is a powerful opportunity to shape self and interpersonal awareness. Have each team member share their insights about themselves and understand other members better with the goal of enhanced team commitment. If team members seem stuck - re-read page three from the Team Assessment Report. Do not stop until you are finished.
Use page 13 (Team Culture Questions - Achieving Commitment - What norms seem important to put into place after reviewing the scoring?
Repetition is the motor of learning…Assign a team member to be a “miner” of conflict. This person will be responsible for bringing sensitive issues to the surface and ensuring every team member contributes to the dialogue. Consider doing so during all meetings where important issues need to be surfaced and discussed. The team should use the insights from their Behavioral Style assessment and the conflict norms to discuss the sensitive issues brought forth by the designated conflict miner.
Going into this meeting, leaders should acknowledge and understand that they are the drivers of commitment.
Review/share “Cascading Messaging” from page 210 of the book. Discuss why this is essential. Go around the room for discussion, feedback, and debate. Develop a norm around this.
Did you get through all of the activities from Trust, Conflict, and Commitment? If not, strongly consider proactively adding time to the fourth retreat.
Begin your half to full-day Accountability retreat with a recap of the Commitment retreat and a personal histories exercise or two. Continue this practice for each team effectiveness meeting. Lencioni shares common examples in his workbook as well as the book itself.
Should you run out of personal histories exercises, consider deploying the Thumball Icebreaker ball and/or Icebreaker Deck. You wish to begin with an icebreaker and THEN have the team complete a personal histories exercise. IMPORTANT - Do not rush this activity. Honor the greatness in every team member by allowing them to share, acknowledge and reflect as needed. Invest 60-75 minutes in personal histories activities.
Next, ask team members to turn to page three from their Team Assessment Report. Ask them to follow along as you read every word. Pause for emphasis. This is important. Ask for your team member’s thoughts. Go around the room. Forwards and backwards.
Expect 30-45 minutes for this activity. Specifically:
This is a powerful opportunity to shape self and interpersonal awareness. Have each team member share their insights about themselves and understand other members better with regard to embracing accountability. If team members seem stuck - re-read page three from the Team Assessment Report. Do not stop until you are finished.
Use page 14 (Team Culture Questions - Embracing Accountability - What norms seem important to put into place after reviewing the scoring?
Repetition is the motor of learning…Assign a team member to be a “miner” of conflict. This person will be responsible for bringing sensitive issues to the surface and ensuring every team member contributes to the dialogue. Consider doing so during all meetings where important issues need to be surfaced and discussed. The team should use the insights from their Behavioral Style assessment and the conflict norms to discuss the sensitive issues brought forth by the designated conflict miner.
Make commitments, stick with accountability.
Use feedback to create a culture of accountability. Use 3-3-1 Feedback Loops on a monthly or bimonthly basis. Have each team member share the following:
Spend time identifying key meetings and dialogues where you want to add accountability. Schedule time for 3-3-1 Feedback Loops.
Did you get through all of the activities from Trust, Conflict, Commitment, and Accountability? If not, strongly consider proactively adding time to the fifth retreat.
Consider adding an hour at the end of this final retreat to discuss feedback regarding the launch and five retreat sessions.
Begin your half to full-day Results retreat with a recap of the Accountability retreat and a personal histories exercise or two. Continue this practice for each team effectiveness meeting. Lencioni shares common examples in his workbook as well as the book itself.
Should you run out of personal histories exercises, consider deploying the Thumball Icebreaker ball and/or Icebreaker Deck. IMPORTANT - Do not rush this activity. Honor the greatness in every team member by allowing them time to share, acknowledge and reflect as needed. Invest 60-75 minutes in personal histories activities.
Next, ask team members to turn to page three from their Team Assessment Report. Ask them to follow along as you read every word. Pause for emphasis. This is important. Ask for your team member’s thoughts. Go around the room.
Expect 30-45 minutes for this activity. Specifically:
For this retreat, team members should be prepared to discuss how their Behavioral Style assessments suggest they view focusing on results (are team members more focused on results and not the path of Trust - Conflict - Commitment - Accountability?). This is a powerful opportunity to shape self and interpersonal awareness. Have each team member share their insights about themselves and understand other members better with the goal of focusing on results (the right way). If team members seem stuck - re-read page three from the Team Assessment Report. Do not stop until you are finished.
Next, get crystal clear about distractions that keep the team from focusing on results. Use page 15 (Team Culture Questions - Focusing on Results - What norms seem important to put into place after reviewing the scoring?)
Repetition is the motor of learning…Assign a team member to be a “miner” of conflict. This person will be responsible for bringing sensitive issues to the surface and ensuring every team member contributes to the dialogue. Consider doing so during all meetings where important issues need to be surfaced and discussed. The team should use the insights from their Behavioral Style assessment and the conflict norms to discuss the sensitive issues brought forth by the designated conflict miner.
Go around the room for discussion, feedback, and debate.
Review/share pages 218-219 - your overview of “Public Declaration of Results” and “Results-Based Rewards.” Go around the room for discussion, feedback, and debate. Develop a norm around this.
The best thing you can do for your Team is to begin this process now.
However, as you move through the exercises, remember that you are on a mediocrity path if you are not on a path of continuous self-reflection, accountability, and improvement.
In short: do not perform these exercises in isolation but on a continuum. For example, if your team lacks Commitment, it is probably due to the Absence of Trust. Refer back to previous sessions as needed to build momentum and weave a common thread through your exploration of the Five Dysfunctions of a Team.
If you are genuinely committed and seek to overcome the Five Dysfunctions of a Team in two days with the help of an experienced facilitator, reach out to speak to a consultant.
If you are seeking more advanced exercises to address dysfunction in your team, consider investing in Patrick Lencioni’s full Five Dysfunctions of a Team Facilitator Guide (second edition) that may be found on Amazon.
Lastly. Have your team read Lencioni’s “The Advantage” to help keep the momentum going.
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